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4 Reasons to Try Live Sex Cams Instead of Porn Videos

July 16, 2019RelationshipsLaura P

Let’s Be Honest: If we’re being honest at this point in time watching porn has gotten a bit stale, hasn’t it?

Sure, a decade ago it was exciting to download the latest sex video of whatever kink you were into, but now we’re nearly two decades into the 21st century and porn is kind of boring, and you know why that is?

Simply put, watching porn requires no participation on your part.

In this era where we interact with almost all of entertainment through video-games, tweets, memes, and chatting, simply sitting there watching porn sounds terribly drab.

We all would most likely prefer to have sex with a partner as that is VERY interactive, but we don’t all have someone available 24-7 to come over and have sex with.

There is a solution though, and it allows you to get hot and heavy anytime of the day you desire.

Webcams!

You may be thinking that sounds a little intimidating or scary, but here are 4 reasons that make it clear why you ought to try webcams instead of porn.

Everyone is Participating

When you’re watching a porn video you have to do all the hard mental work to get excited.

You have to fantasize or imagine the kind of situation you’d like to see if a video isn’t quite what you were after–which is quite likely if you get tired of searching for that, “Perfect clip.”

“Imagine being able to, “Put yourself in the picture,” though, so-to-speak“

You have a partner who is willing to listen to EXACTLY what your fantasy is and play it out with you.

Instead of it being a one-sided experience of you watching porn suddenly it is an erotic dialogue between you and a beautiful partner eager to live-out your fantasy with you.

You Can Join a Community OR Remain Anonymous

Watching porn can be isolating.

You may get to see some sexy footage of your favorite kink, but how exactly can you share that joy?

You don’t want to tell your friends about certain things for fear they may judge you, after all.

Well, with certain webcam formats you can find other viewers and models who share your exact interests and are eager to discuss them, you can feel truly a part of a thriving community!

Then again, if you value your privacy and don’t want anyone to know about your favorite kinky stuff, you can stay anonymous too.

You never have to appear on a camera if you desire, instead simply chatting via text to models, expressing what you like or don’t like.

“It is truly all your choice.“

Rapport is Built with Your Favorite Models Through Private Shows

We may sometimes have a favorite porn star in our videos we like to watch, but if we ever met them at a convention or such they would have zero clue who we are other than a random fan.

That is not the case with webcams where you can interact with your favorite models as much as you like and truly build-up rapport through intimate and sexy relationships.

You can always take things extra-further with private shows done with the models you like most to allow you both time to be alone and to really get to know each other.

Plus, the more often you get on the webcam with the same model the more your relationship will grow–allowing for even more kinky explorations, Now that sounds a lot more awesome than watching the same clip for the 500th time.

You can Still Enjoy Porn, or Incorporate it!

Don’t think that this piece is at all intending to be dismissive of porn.

“ No, no, porn is of course great! “

We just are staying sometimes it can get a little stale, but one way to make it extra exciting is to maybe even incorporate it into your webcam hobby!

Many webcam models also make porn and often love discussing it with their fans.

You could even simply watch a random porno with a model and talk about what you both enjoy in it and how hot-and-horny it gets you both if you feel like it.

Porn and Webcams are like peanut butter and chocolate, they are two things that are great alone and also work wonderfully together!

Try Webcams Today!!!

Clearly if you’re finding yourself bored more and more often with porn giving webcams a try is a great way to spice things up and get your kinks fulfilled a lot easier than spending hours browsing the internet.

Webcams are fun, sexy, and you can be as public or private as you want with the models.

Give it a try today, you won’t regret it!

Enter Camzter.com to find your perfect cam girl!

Top 5 best ways to flirt with cam girls

May 16, 2019UncategorizedLaura P

Live webcam sites are normally endowed with undeniably stunning ladies.

If you intend to go on a live cam show to chat with cam models, be prepared to be thunderstruck by the beauties. When this happens, the chances of losing your composure and saying all the wrong things to a cam girl are pretty high. That would probably get you nowhere.

This not only happens to beginners. Moreover, even people who have been on a live chat with a cam girl before can still find themselves in a precarious position and mess it up. Conversing with a cam girl is not as easy as it seems.

However, with the right skills, anyone can positively flirt with a cam girl. The better equipped to handle the conversation you are, the less embarrassed you will be.

So, which are the best ways to flirt with cam girls?

1.Use attractive speech

As much as it is easy to get carried away when you are on a live cam show with a gorgeous cam model, you want to make sure you don’t go overboard for a start. If you come out too strongly at first, your chat with her might be short-lived.

So what should you do? – Avoid misplacing your well-intentioned comments. You can do this by putting yourself in her shoes. Simply, come off as flirty but in a subtle manner.

2. Compliment your chosen cam model

Generally, girls love to be complimented. One of the ways to do this while flirting with a cam model is throwing in some bona fide compliments. Remember that she has probably heard it all, so if your compliment is far-fetched, she definitely knows it.

What you want to do is compliment her outstanding features. It could be her dreamy or hazel eyes, or simply her charming smile. This should be a simple thing to do, especially because there is something that attracts you to her.

3. Be confident

Adult cam chats call for a good level of confidence. If you come out as hesitant and give a cam stripper the impression that you are second guessing yourself, your success rate will be limited. Therefore, one of the best moves is to exude confidence when talking to a cam girl.

Nevertheless, you should strike the right balance and not come off as boisterous and overconfident.

4. Send tips

If everything is going well, and she is giggly, and receptive to your jokes as well as the good dirty talk, appreciate her with small tips.

This works because there are plenty of guys who approach cam girls and don’t show any seriousness whatsoever. In most cases, this does not sit well with cam models.

Money certainly shows the beautiful lady that you are committed and appreciative of her time.

Moreover, you don’t have to tip her with tons of money. A small tip here and there will get her to her good books.

5. Be active in the rooms

Be present and active in public chat rooms, especially during online sex shows.

This is one of the ways to get the performers warm up to you. It is a crucial method that speeds up the process of you landing your gem. As you do this, it’s smart to hint at a private chat platform and engage the cam strippers in other exciting discussions.

The cam girls appreciate this, instead of continuous flirtatious conversations all the time without really going anywhere. It becomes boring and mundane, increasing your chances of turning them off.

Bonus tip: All performers tend to have a clique of regular users, with whom they chat constantly. Getting along with the regulars and building a good reputation builds up a rapport with the performers. You also get to have a unique bond. Once you are consistent, you shouldn’t be surprised if she says you are one of her favorites and gives you more attention than you anticipated.

Adult webcams are a good way to unwind and deal with the pressures of life and work.

If you’d like to participate or are already enjoying the bliss that comes with interacting with cam girls, you better learn the art of flirting with cam models.

As much as it is not easy, if you diligently adhere to the tips given above, you should be able to flirt with various kinds of cam girls that you fancy during the adult cam chats.

The Dos and Don’ts of Dating a Camgirl

April 9, 2018Relationshipscouples, relationshipsLaura P

It is possible to date a camgirl, and this article is going to show you exactly how to do it.

If you were attracted by the title of this article then you probably already do well with women – to some extent.

It could be that women in your social circle find you interesting, smart, and funny. Maybe you often hook up with some of these women. You may even be confident enough to negotiate the odd one night stand with a woman you just met for the first time.

But, how do you handle yourself in a situation where you meet that strikingly beautiful woman? I’m talking about the type of girl who probably makes a lot of money from being beautiful like a camgirl or a stripper?

If you’re someone who hasn’t spent a lot of time with women like that, it’s likely that you see such women as your opportunity to embark on an epic romance, thus filling the goddess-shaped hole in your life.

So your mouth goes dry, your mind goes blank, and your legs turn to jelly.

You don’t know what you could possibly say to attract the attention of this charming enchantress. Even when you try to speak to her there doesn’t seem to be any connection, and throughout the entire interaction, all you can sense is her indifference.

Best case scenario, she says it was nice to meet you before sauntering back into her magical life of a gorgeous seductress.

You’re left wondering what is happening. Aren’t your looks and status up to par? Maybe you’re not as smart as you thought you were? Or is it just that your charm doesn’t work with cam girls? What could possibly be stopping you from advancing your relationship with that absolute stunner?

Almost like every other fantasy that you can conceive, the reality of dating a camgirl will always be vastly different than the preconceived ideas of men who have never done it before. Make sure you’re ready for it.

3 Interesting Facts About Cam Girls:

– Camgirls are taking over the adult dating market. Adult cam chat and live cam shows are now a billion dollar market.

– The passionate girl that you see in front of adult webcams isn’t the one you will get to see every day during your relationship (not an obvious statement to some…)

– Most of the camgirls have very strict rules about dating their clients.

Beneath the surface

It’s all about the mindset. The simple secret to moving things forward with women like that is to treat them the same as the women that you believe you deserve.

Don't try to stand out or put on any kind of elaborate performance for her.

Of course, this is much easier in theory than it is to put into practice as she probably won’t respond to you the way average women do.

While you may be able to impress the average or pretty girl with your witty pick-up lines, your humorous stories and jokes, and the intrepid nature of your approach, the extremely beautiful women have seen it all before. A woman like that has been hearing those lines since her teenage years and there isn’t a thing you could do that would impress her.

Instead of the whole song and dance, she wants to see who you really are and she looks for subtle clues like how you react when she gives no indication that she likes you, when there’s silence, or when she teases you or insults you to your face.

Can you remain calm through all that? Are you strong enough to maintain eye contact, keep the physical rapport and fun vibe going under all that pressure? This can tell you a whole lot more about yourself and whether or not you think you deserve such a woman than anything you might profess.

But that is not all…

What happens when her friends vie for her attention? Or when some random guy invites himself into your conversation? What do you do when she spills her drink or loses her phone?

In all of these scenarios, your actions will speak a hundred times louder than your words.

Be willing to walk away

A willingness to walk away from a woman (no matter how hot she is or how awesome you think she might be) might be the one determining factor in whether you deserve her or not.

What do you say to her when she’s behaving like a brat? Do you let her get away with anything because she is a camgirl? Or do you question any of her actions that don’t meet your standards?

A real boss knows just what he wants and needs in a woman, and it's often more than just beauty. Instead of letting himself be mesmerized by the camgirl's sexiness, he will ask questions to see if she meets his criteria. You should do that, too.

Additionally, explore the reason why you’re so interested in the idea of dating a model or a camgirl. Is it something to do with your ego, or do the personalities of such women resemble someone you see yourself living the rest of your life with? Do you personally know enough about this type of woman to have developed a stereotype that is accurate?

A lot of camgirls had troubled childhoods and the industry they are in is full of competition, stress, and bitchiness. Your best bet is to approach these women with the goal of finding out if they are right for you.

Love yourself and put yourself first!

Your life can be super exciting without a supermodel in it. Adopt this mindset, and you will find it much easier to speak to the most stunning women in the world.

If you fill your life with wonderful friends, interesting hobbies and so on, you won’t need to have a gorgeous girlfriend to feel happy. In fact, when you do it that way, you set a solid boundary for women to meet in order for them to become a part of your life.

Before you know it, these stunning camgirls will be much less intimidating than in the past.

Webcam sex – is it cheating?

June 21, 2016RelationshipsLaura P

Internet causing breakups?

When it comes to the question “webcam sex – is it cheating?”, there is no definite yes or no answer. As with any topic, between a couple, it is something which falls completely within their individual jurisdiction. All answers provided by anyone other than the two involved will be wrong 100% of the time. Every solution found satisfying by the two involved will be deemed correct 100% of the time. The definition should remain as sacred as the bond which holds the two together in the first place. With that said, let’s take a moment and identify what is going on in the millions of lives with other couples.

Logic of a Society:

Let us take the analogy of intent vs. blame. If someone wants to harm another person they are going to use whatever means available and try to complete their task. Blaming a kitchen knife for a crime is like blaming a pan for a bad tasting meal. There was a court case where a woman poured a frozen ice cream treat over her husband’s head while he was driving, resulting in a serious car crash. Her defense against the attempted murder charges blamed the temperature of the frozen treats being passed out to drivers. If we can blame a Frosty for attempted homicide, there may be no limits with respect to logic. Defining the Frosty’s intent to harm that man driving might take a team of highly skilled legal experts, but some could most likely make it happen. As a society everyone wants to point fingers at someone else for our flaws, it is always the inanimate objects who get the blame. Thus answering that question about webcam sex is it cheating, we simply need to identify the intent. Remember these words as if you read and comprehend no other-”cheaters are always going to find an excuse for cheating.”

Web Found Guilty In 3 Year Sex Scandal:

“We were the perfect couple until he started searching the internet, and then he ended up having that 3 year affair with the Sunday school teacher”… That story-line, although bizarre to some, is actually based on true events. In this case, the internet is blamed for having sex with the Sunday school teacher for a period of 3 years. Does anyone reading this want to chime in and ask why the internet is not reduced to maybe being an “accessory” or “aiding and abetting” as opposed to taking the fall for this woman’s blame game.

Webcam vs. Social Media:

More than 70% of divorce cases mention social media as having a direct impact on the break up of couples. It is normally not the “inaccessible” but rather the easily accessible which cause the infidelity. Defining the word “infidelity” is like trying to paint the wind, it is easy to see what it causes but impossible to actually define in shape and form. One couple’s “infidelity” is another couple’s routine weekend-everything depends on the couple. Hello, which is more accessible? It is like asking if someone wants to have dinner with the neighbors or the Pope… Many questions center around whether it is the same to sexually flirt with a classmate on social media or watch a nude webcam show. Watching explicit webcam shows is a different story. As this funny story suggests, it is hard to blame your partner in cheating because he/she watches adult webcam shows. Of course, as long as he doesn’t really want to meet a webcam girl and get laid with her.

Partner-cams:

That is right, we created a new invention. If someone wants to know for certain if their partner is cheating on them, they need to install a cam somewhere on their bodies where they may not notice. Now it needs to be a place that is comfortable and still has a view of what is happening around the person. Doesn’t that sound ridiculous? If a partner does not know when they are actually doing something which disrespects their relationship, then they are not truly a partner.

Bending the Finger the Right Way:

This exercise is the most clear and concise way of determining who is at fault for a bad relationship. This technique will remove any cover from “safe place” thinking and “pc” ways of explaining things. Take your right arm and extend it fully, then extend your index finger and point it at social media, webcams, skype and all of those evils which are hurting your relationship. Doesn’t that feel great, pointing that finger of blame at all of those reasons for relationship failure? Now bend your finger back and tilt your hand slightly to the left until it is pointing directly at you. If your relationship is not working it is 100% your own fault for either not taking the time to talking things out or end it. There is no “fall guy or gal” for the truth. No need to blame an inanimate object, fix it or throw it away. Words to live by.